I was young once quiet and shy and let people walk all over me. I had a problem saying no and people took advantage of that. One day something inside of me changed I wasn't that quite shy person anymore. I am not so loud that I make people crazy but I do not hesitate to share my opinion or thoughts on something if I strongly disagree. I am not talking about stupid topics I am talking about "you are wrong and I am right" type of stuff. As my friend I will stand up for you and will even fight for you if I have too. Sometimes I am the only one standing up funny thing that happens a lot. I would rather be alone standing up then sitting and complaining about the person or situation and talk about it behind everyone's back and when its time to talk to the person face to face everyone is sitting down and there I am all alone.
This is where my teaching comes into play years and years of people abusing my niceness. Well no more I will teach people anywhere anytime and I am not even nice about it. Yes I admit it I am not nice at all. People have come accustomed to being inconsiderate lazy jerks in this world. And we need to teach them!
The lady in the checkout who is putting her frozen unwanted groceries on top of the candy bars because she is to lazy to take them back to the freezer section. I will say to you "Really your going to put them there?" Yeah I said it and I was proud of myself. You all were thinking it and the poor check out gal couldn't even stand to be there at that moment and there was nothing she could have done customers always right, right? Someone has to come along and clean that stuff up and then write it off and discard the items that obviously are not longer frozen. I am not that lazy I will take the item all the way back to where ever I picked it up at yes I do this because I was taught to be considerate of others.
Or the four grown men sitting behind us at graduation talking and laughing loudly during the speeches I had to finally turn around and tell them to bring it down a few. Why should you have to be told to be quiet during a ceremony? People do it at weddings, funerals where ever you should be zipping your damn lip.
Yes you could say I am a hyprocrite but I don't tolerate LAZY or STUPID at all. Nope that is where my teaching comes into play. Trust me I do pick my battles I do bite my tongue more now then I ever have but it's because I have also learned that STUPID cannot be fixed or taught and LAZY just doesn't give a shit.